...Love is Eternal...
The Love the other "inspired", "activated", "restored" in you... is "The Gift" from the relationship... and it is yours always. And the same goes for them as well. The Love you inspired/activated/expanded in them, is their eternal gift 'from' you.
You can connect with that eternal Love anytime, whether they are physically with you or not.... and that is a beautiful thing...<3
Go ahead and close your eyes a moment... take a few deep, mind quieting breaths. [Also energetically ground yourself in a way that resonates with you]. Feel your body relaxing into the chair as you settle your consciousness into your heart area.
Set the intention to tune into the Love that you felt with this person or being. Imagine feeling that loving feeling with every cell of your body. You may recall a particular memory to aid in this.
What does that Love feel like? What sensations do you feel in your body? Where? If you had to put words to the sensations, thoughts, sounds, or pictures that come to you as you 'tune into' the feeling of Love you had with this person/being, how would you describe it?
I'll give you an example:
"My body feels warm, relaxed. The cells of my skin are buzzing with excitement and joy. My heart feels full and open past bursting. There is such a smile on my face. I feel safe, loved, and full of love. Understood, cherished, protected. Light (floating). Optimistic. Generous. Full of wonder. Miracles. I see myself seeing the beauty in everything around me."
Once you have a description of your own, you can use it to help you tune back into that Love more quickly, anytime. Each time you do, your heart opens and heals some more, the sharp grief of loss you feel physically by their departure begins to lessen... until one day, you think of them, and the more dominant feeling that arises is of the eternal Love in your heart that was a priceless gift for you to experience.
A key here is to really take the time to feel it in your body...some of us may be more naturally 'knowing' or 'seeing', however, experiencing the vibration with your physical body will really help it be more real to your body, which in turn will help bring your desired frequency more quickly into your physical reality. [In essence, when you bring your physical-emotional bodies into alignment with the energetic frequency you desire, that's when manifesting in your physical reality occurs quickly as a result of Law of Attraction].
Note: There are a lot of wonderful tools out there to move through the stages of grief and other emotions around endings, closure, and change. This tool helps you tune into a specific Love you experienced that expanded you, and it serves as a reminder it belongs to you, is part of you...IS you. And 'the work' would be to access that vibration whenever your heart hurts and you want to consciously connect to your eternal Love for peace...connection...healing.